Six Secrets on how to keep a healthy relationship
We all now live in an age where it is more acceptable to swap your relationship for another one, sometimes more often than changing the style of your hair. Dare I say it, but some would say relationships are now disposable, which is crazy but hey, it is what it is these days.
But what do you do, if you have found the right one, when all the bells go off and steam comes out of your ears, when you think of them. Real love, true love,THE ONE!!! Well the most important one for you on your journey through life. How do you now keep hold of it and make it work and move on from all the disposable relationships that you may have had but are definitely all around you.
If this is the one and you will know, the most important thing is what you put into it, to keep it, you will have to work hard at this but you know it is worth it and luckily for you, I have six great secrets to guide you to make a success of your ever so important relationship.
Communication is so important, and the communication between both of you has to be clear and effective. This is more than just talking, it means careful listening and understanding where the other person is coming from. You both have to understand each other’s views and respect them. You have to be very together with your views and if not, then talk to each other.
A long healthy relationship needs a loving physical connection. I don’t just mean a bedroom connection, which is also important. But for you both to bond, touching, hugging, cuddling is so key and should be done as often as possible. Holding hands in public, hugging wherever and whenever it feels right and cuddling as much as possible will help bring you so much closer together. And the more you do this will make you both more fulfilled, closer, happier and loving towards each other.
3) Get on the same page.
All relationships have to be on the same page, you have to both share certain morals, convictions, religious beliefs, some shared connections. And you should work on these to ensure you have as much shared convictions as are possible. The more you share, the greater the relationship.
4) Sharing of interests.
This is different from being on the same page. You both probably have different interests, which is cool but if you could share some interests, it would be so much better, again you will grow closer as you share the experiences.
5) Spending time together.
To make your relationship work, spending time together is something you not only must do, but want to do. If not then why are you in this relationship? Spending quality time with each other in good times and more importantly during bad times is crucial and will bring you so close together.
6) Spending time away from each other.
After just saying its key to spend time together, it is also crucial to spend time away from each other, with your friends or specific individual interests. This gives you time to think and hopefully miss each other and time away from all that great relationship building work…
The list seems quite obvious, but if followed will improve your relationship so much, they all add to the power of togetherness and keeping you together is the goal.