It isn’t always a walk in the park to get your man or boyfriend back. You may have been really trying to get him back for some time, without any success. and that is probably why you are here. You’re hoping for an easy and maybe quick, even magical answer to get him to come back for good this time.
Getting back together after separation won’t be easy but hey it has to be worth a shot if you still love that person.
Is there a magic answer? Magic is something mystical and wonderful for some people, that cannot easily be explained. or much less understood. Other people believe magic is a sleight of hand, a trick of the eye that can always be explained. Your definition of magic doesn’t matter, whether it includes enchantment or wonder or even a mystery to solve, getting your man or boyfriend back does not involve and spells. But some magic words always help.
What kind of sparkle has been in your relationship recently? This is the little fun element and zest for life that is necessary in all lasting relationships. Were things going along well and suddenly it all went wrong? Or have things been slowly going down hill in recent months? When was the last time you both went on a romantic date for example? How long has it been since you weren’t able to keep your hands off each other? But how do you put the “sparkle” back in after the fact?
You add the sparkle into your own life. Change up your image a little. Add a little zest to your appearance, it will boost your confidence a little, and become the active, vibrant girl you were when you first met. If the two of you are in similar social circles he will hear about the new you, news travels fast, and it will drive him nuts with curiosity.
Now really get into the best shape of your life. It doesn’t matter if it’s toning up or losing weight, now is the time to take care of yourself and look great. It only needs to be a small improvement, more if you can but a small improvement will really show everyone, especially him.
You need to eat nutritious meals and always drink lots of water to stay hydrated. This is important because the one thing you want, if you cross paths more than anything else with your ex man or boyfriend is for him to see you glow and come across as a healthy and happy lady. He will expect you to pine a little and it will really make him curious about what’s happening in your life if you’re looking better than ever and seem happy.
Keep going and never consider grieving over him. Live your best life without him and commit to it. You’re not moving on. You’re not letting go of the idea of getting him back. It’s so much better, it is showing him that you do not need him. And magically all this time he’s working out that he might actually need you.
Relationships are not easy to manage, but neither is breaking up. Give him the opportunity to see that you are not only living and growing on your own but looking great without him. And he’s very likely to make the first move, which is great as it will be easy to convince him that the idea to get back together was all his. Now that is truly magical, convincing him that he’s the one who wanted to make it happen.