How to get back together after a break up (Lazy Man’s Guide)

How to get back together after a break upIt is very difficult to break up, and more so if it wasn’t your idea. And men can do some crazy stuff to get their wives or girlfriends back. They handle this traumatic time in many different ways. and the crazy stuff can consist of negotiating, begging, bribery, and sometimes stalking. Some men accept it and move on, in time and put it down to experience.

It will take time to fix a heart that is broken and restore enough confidence to get them back in the dating game. But some won’t take no for an answer and are desperate to get their girl back but have no real plan to do it, so often resort to some strange ideas.

But it is simpler than you may think.

Fortunately, hoop jumping really isn’t necessary to get her back. You don’t even have to do the chasing. You’ll probably be surprised to learn just how easy it can be to get her to come back to you. Here is a short list of things you can do easily.

Don’t phone her

This has got to be easy, right? Well it can be but men struggle with this particular inactivity as they need to protect and defend and therefore feel a great need to convince their ex to change their mind. And chase them down until they agree. But in real life this is not a great idea.

So, don’t phone her, give her some time to consider things and it was good between you.

Change some things at Home

Have a look at how you look, make some small changes, they will get noticed in a positive way. You don’t need a complete change. Try some gym work or get involved in sport to improve your fitness and tone. Maybe even try making your teeth whiter.

Also try and not eat as much, don’t have to diet, just cut out that second portion, portion control really works.

She will come around, you’ll see

News travels fast, even in your part of the world, your small changes will be noticed and that is exactly what you want. People and particularly your ex will want to know what is going on, why you have made the changes and who are they for. She will be going crazy, asking around to get the lowdown to find out how you are managing well on your own. She will try and accidently meet you in the mall or wherever to see for herself what has changed.

Then you have you big chance to speak to her on your terms as she will have come around and be interested again.

Now you know how to get back together after a break up.

Good luck.

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