One of the best answers to the question: my girlfriend dumped me how do I get her back, is it depends.  How you go about getting her to come back to you, the best approach, depends on many things such as why she broke up with you in the first place, whether or not she is seeing someone else and how long it’s been since the breakup.  Without all this information it’s tough to know which tactics may work best for you.  

There are, however, some rules of thumb that do tend to work well for most people.  Just tweak these tips to make them work for your situation: 

1.  The best thing a guy can do to get his girl back 99% of the time is to change.  In most relationships both people have their issues and their own bad traits that helped cause trouble in the relationship.  And while I don’t know the specifics of your relationship generally speaking the person who has been dumped was the majority of the problem (now, I realize that this may not be the case for you but even if it isn’t, we all have issues and areas of ourselves were we can improve and grow, doing that will only help you no matter what happens with your ex).

Overcome this obstacle…This is how you get her back!

 2. I know that no one wants to hear this one but I’ve personally found it to be true, give your girl some space. I’ve read some things online that criticize this approach but do the math yourself; as long as you’re hanging around in the background you make a good back up plan. Your ex has no reason to get back with you.  She can see anyone she wants knowing that if things don’t work out with them you’ll take her back.  You need to scare her and make her wonder what her life would be like if she really lost you forever.  That won’t happen as long as you’re always around.

 These two steps can help you get ready to talk to your ex, you will be able to show her that you’ve changed and that will go a long way to getting her to come back to you.  I hope this information will answer the question: my girlfriend dumped me how do I get her back?